Reincarnation, Karma, and Life after Death
Boys to Responsible Men
Since I was a very young child I always loved to watch the nature shows on television. Some of my favorites were the Wild Kingdom episodes about the lion prides in Africa. A pride of lions generally consisted of one dominant male and several females. The dominant male lion would mate with the females and when the cubs were born he along with all the females would protect all the baby lions. However, as the cubs mature and the young male cubs begin to grow their mane, which is a sign of becoming mature, they are run off from the pride by the dominant male.
The young males are then forced to hunt and live on their own until they can get big, strong, and experienced enough to have their own pride and the circle of life starts all over again. The moment the young male lions are sent away from the pride they were born into, they are forced to grow up and first become a provider for themselves as they have to hunt for their own food. However, simultaneously, as they are learning to survive on their own they are also picking of critical skills they would need if they are fortunate to have their own pride.
Oddly enough, what occurs in nature by God given instinct with the male lions is actually more or less what should be occurring with the male offspring in our families. Some years ago this was the case; once a male child reached what is considered the legal age of eighteen it was a widely accepted rule that he would make plans to leave home and go out on his own. If the young man didn’t have plans to leave on their own, generally the fathers would set a timeframe for when the son had to get a job and go out on his own. Even if they were going to college and still were partly depended on their parents while in school; remaining home was not an acceptable long term option.
Unfortunately, today this is no longer the case as there are many young men who remain home well into their late twenties and sometimes their thirties and sadly forties. Once many young men do eventually leave home today they go from being under their mother’s roof directly to being under the roof with their wife or significant other.
We are completely destroying the God defined family. We push our daughters out the instant they become of legal age forcing them to take on characteristics God intended for Adam in order for them to survive. We then allow our sons to remain home indefinitely hindering them from learning and taking on the characteristics God intended for all male offspring to posses. We have to stop babying in our sons!
Moms, you are not helping your sons by allowing them to remain under your roof for an indefinite amount of time with no long or short term plans for becoming independent. Dads our sons needs us to be dads whether we live under the same roof with them or not. Men, if our sons live in the same home with us it is our OBLIGATION to prepare them for being independent and responsible for themselves sooner rather than later. Again, this does not mean not supporting them while they are pursuing higher education, but even that needs to have a time limit. Single moms you know better than most, especially women of color, how difficult it is to find a mate who is responsible. The reasons why so many men today do not want to live up to their responsibility is because dads were off the scene and mommas didn’t know how to cut the preverbal umbilical cord.
The bottom line is we have to stop literally harming our male offspring by not helping them be the men God made them to be. Some of us are afraid of dying not because we fear death but because we fearful of what will happen to our adult children. We have been taking care of them well into their adult lives and many are so co-dependent on us they are no earth good to any woman or any child they are responsible for producing.
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What is your true motivation for serving God?
A man named Naaman was the commander of the Syrian army and he had great favor in the eyes of the Syrian king. However, Naaman had leprosy and was told that there was a prophet in Samaria who could heal him. Naaman asked the king of Syria if he could go find this prophet and the king gave him permission and told him to take some gifts to the king of Israel. Naaman eventually came before Elisha and was healed of his leprosy. In an effort to show his gratitude Naaman offered Elisha some of the treasures he had but Elisha graciously refused Naaman’s offer.
Gehazi, one of Elisha’s servants decided that they should take some of Naaman’s gifts, after all Elisha did heal him. So Gehazi found Naaman and lied to him saying Elisha decided to take some of the gifts. Gehazi then took the ill-gotten gifts her received from Naaman and hid them in a house. Upon returning to Elisha, Gehazi was questioned about his whereabouts and actions and of course he did not tell the truth. However, he was exposed by Elisah and then immediately judged for his deeds.
For those who serve God in any capacity and those of us who desire to serve God there is a very important question we must ask ourselves and that is what is our motivation? The unfortunate reality is God’s church has been exploited and while there are many who serve out of the goodness of their hearts; there are many more where this is not the case! Is our desire to serve God based on some underlying motive to profit for ourselves monetarily or socially? This message is not suggesting that those who labor for God should not be compensated or taken care of, but compensation should not be our motivating factor.
The word of God says that if we seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be added (Matthew 6:33). There are many who are like Gehazi that think we are entitled to certain privileges and status because of what we say we are doing for God. So instead of allowing those “things” to be added we begin to do things to make sure we get what we think we deserve.
While we may successfully hide our true intension from the folks around us because they have bought into our religious charade; we have not fooled God in the least bit. Elisha asked Gehazi, “Did not my heart gowith you when the man turned back from his chariot to meet you?” God is saying is not His heart/spirit everywhere we go; am I not all knowing? There are a lot of very prominent people going around teaching, preaching and prophesying operating in the very same spirit of Gehazi. The sad thing is many of them started out with pure intension but allowed desire of wanting more before it was divinely added to pervert their hearts.
Again, this is not about folk who labor for God not be well compensated; this is about when being compensated is our primary motivation. Elisha also asked Gehazi, “Is it time to receive money and to receive clothing, olive groves and vineyards, sheep and oxen, male and female servants?” There is a time and a season for everything under the sun, even a time, if it is in God’s will for us, to have the things we desire added.
Whether it’s in church, on our jobs, or even among our family and friends we have to be mindful of our motivation for whatever we are doing. God would like nothing more than for us to serve Him by being a blessing to our fellow man, but the moment we expect something in return is where we open a door for the enemy to enter. There is nothing wrong if we accept someone’s token of gratitude, but the moment we start to expect something it is no longer a token of gratitude; it becomes our motivation.